Never Ever Give Up

Life is ongoing process that will never ends. It is single track for an individual with full of hurdles which you have to face. we all faces problems in our life it can be general problem like relationship problem, problem related to society, problem related to work place etc. but we have to face this and come out with solution. Life is part of hurdles you always have to face that and win from that. Life is like bicycle for maintaining balance you have to keep moving. 

Generally we quickly solve our problem, but problems becomes more difficult when you are not able to find the solution, sometimes new problems arises which had no solution in past. it is very hard to deal from that problem but still we should never give up we have to find solution for that.

Ways to solve problem

It is necessary to have a specific procedure to solve problem.

Stage 1:

Don't Ignore problem: It is important to know that you are facing problem, never ignore the problem because it can create apprehension, depression and can cause you mentally or physically weak.

usually, Ignoring problem just because of thinking that it is small problem and cause severe problems in upcoming time.

a) Observe the problem and write it down: Observe your problem and write it on some paper, finding solution can be easy when you are having complete record of your habit. sometimes writing makes you feel better, it is like expressing yourself to someone or sharing you pain to someone.

b) Use your emotion: Negative thinking is not problem it can help you to solve the problem such may be you are thinking that you are stressed at work but negative emotion can help you to find the reason why you are stressed at work, always try to find the solution of problem.

c) Identify the challenges: it is important to identify the challenges, if you are not got at solving problem it will create negative thinking and you will be demotivated, even if you are good at solving problem it is necessary to identify the challenge or problem.

Stage 2:

Justify the problem: It is important to justify the problem. Once you identify the problem next step is to justify your problem means a wide description of your problem is important to find the solution.

your problem can be described by keeping some points in mind such as:

1.  What is problem or which thing is making you uncomfortable? ( for eg. your career growth is problem you are not getting promotion)

2.  What I want or what would make me happy? ( for eg. getting promotion is job and career growth will solve my problem).

Stage 3

Start Finding the solution: The biggest mistake what we do is that we start finding old solution, if old solution works we not facing the problem till now, so start finding new solution. Finding solution should includes few points such as:

a) Come up with different solution: Find different solution for problem you have to come up with different solution at least 10 or more solution for particular problem, always think from different to solve the problem.

b)Don't decide particular solution:  you have to think new solution for problem so it doesn't matter that which solution is silly or you don't have to decide which solution is work and which will not don't take decision right know.

c) Different alternative: Always have different alternative to solve problem because it is necessary to see problems with different angles and different solution to to solve the problem.

d) Interact with people: If you are not able to find new solution to problem then speak with other people, interact with people around you try to engaged with them share your problem with you will get some solution to solve the problem.

Stage 4

Decide the solution and solve the problem: It is time to decide the solution for the problem and carry out the solution to solve the problem. always remember that there is no perfect solution it is best solution. Perfection doesn't exist you always find only best solution.

a)Choose the best solution:  It necessary to choose the best alternative to solve the problem because there is no perfect solution there is only best solution compare the all the alternative and choose the best alternative .

b) time and effort taken by solution: Every alternative takes specific amount time and effort to solve the problem, It important to know time and effort taken to solve the problem.

Your goal is to find the best solution not to find the perfect solution because it doesn't exist so it is better to find the best what you can do solve the problem.

Ways to fight with challenges in life

Everyone has problems in their life, even most powerful people also faces difficulties in their life the point is how to face that challenges in life. It is not easy to overcome from these challenges you have to face the difficulties 

1. Be Strong: we feel proud in our life when we achieve something worth in life means you have to work hard to get something same as you have to be strong to face the problem, proof your limits and ability to face the problems.

2. Interact with people: Never be alone means never feel yourself alone talk to your friends and family discuss your issues with them you will get some solution. Always remember that you are not alone there is family and friends who will always support never lose the hope.

3. Always think positive: Generally, when someone is facing a problem they start tend to see negative thoughts, this can be biggest loop hole to solve the problem. Always think positive it will give spirit to fight with problem positive thinking like strength which will encourage to fighting and handling the problem.

4. Express through writing: Writing is best way to express your felling and your thought to other people. when you are in bad or good mood keep on writing it will share your thought when you are in no mood to interact with other people.

5. Don't ever give up: Always remember that you should never give up always keep on trying to face challenges because you are not born to bear the pain you are fighter. Life is always full of problem and these problems are inescapable. It is true that you result depends on your hard work so don't ever give up keep on trying.